tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14994418.post2274719182412217798..comments2023-12-12T11:39:43.504+01:00Comments on Blurb from the Burbs: MedicatedMoohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08609190990579743429noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14994418.post-6812837187465809892010-01-15T06:35:33.299+01:002010-01-15T06:35:33.299+01:00Cash Making Opportunities - The Beginning The work...Cash Making Opportunities - The Beginning The working life is already tough enough, but the worries of being out of work was even tougher. The unsecured working environment have prompted me to search the internet for an alternative source of extra income so that I could learn how to Make Money Work for me and be Financially Independent. I listed down a number of Free Internet Business Opportunity Ideas while researching ways how people earn money online while working-from-home.......<br /><br />www.onlineuniversalwork.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14994418.post-5743878244353929702009-11-26T18:32:44.214+01:002009-11-26T18:32:44.214+01:00Crikey Kath,
That's some story. I would never...Crikey Kath,<br /><br />That's some story. I would never forgive Bulldog either. <br /><br />To be honest, I would probably have been sacked for punching her in the face.<br /><br />DavePlastic Mancunianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01864213919913476168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14994418.post-81717991054012581592009-11-26T12:14:46.553+01:002009-11-26T12:14:46.553+01:00There is a HUGE comfort in knowing that you are a ...There is a HUGE comfort in knowing that you are a better person :-) :-)<br /><br />Occasionally Schadenfreude comes your way as well... The pleasure to be had there is usually small, and somewhat bitter. But pleasure nonetheless. <br /><br />There is a great satisfaction to be had sometimes in finding that you outlived the pricks.<br /><br />For some reason some of the most unpleasant people in management or authority positions seem to be women - so much for the carein' sharin' communicatin' tag that is breathlessly brushed around. And thereby hangs yet another tale...ashleighhttp://ashleigh.id.aunoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14994418.post-28503304118070929142009-11-26T05:08:33.068+01:002009-11-26T05:08:33.068+01:00Thanks guys. I know that I can't do anything ...Thanks guys. I know that I can't do anything to make her be better human being; just make sure that I'm a better one....Kath Locketthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09677312773827236567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14994418.post-14736027055837644572009-11-25T22:28:45.414+01:002009-11-25T22:28:45.414+01:00Ashleigh is spot on about this, you have to move a...Ashleigh is spot on about this, you have to move away from them. I'm not a psychologist but these people have no remorse, no empathy and they will do anything to anyone to get ahead. In short they are sociopaths and you can't do anything with them. They will hurt you and use you up without limit. I have observed people like this tangentially and had to deal with a few directly and there is no reasoning with them. You simply have to get away and do the best with your new situation whatever it is. Well done on having the courage and strength to do that.Jack42https://www.blogger.com/profile/06321123950178642555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14994418.post-23652770619556641772009-11-25T21:45:49.610+01:002009-11-25T21:45:49.610+01:00I had this problem a long while ago, where the str...I had this problem a long while ago, where the stress got so bad I wanted to go home and have an accident, instead I was able to take the strong decision to get out! We can all look back and say if only but life is a learning cirve and as LC says unless you are in the position it is easy to say you should have...<br /><br />the one thing I have learned is we all move on and the sadness lessens with time, we do become different people often better and more caring. keep up the good work we all love younuttynotonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14994418.post-51976663480037060082009-11-25T18:43:29.773+01:002009-11-25T18:43:29.773+01:00It never fails to amaze me how people like that en...It never fails to amaze me how people like that end up in positions of authority. Although I guess that attitude is valued as the 'killer instinct' by people who don't know the value of having a cohesive work unit.<br /><br />I think if someone does someting to hurt you (accidentally or on purpose) and they apoologise and mean it and make amends for whatever it was, the that's it. It's forgotten. I suck at bearing grudges.<br /><br />But for someone to behave like that and not have the dedcency to apologise is just beyone any kind of dealing-with strategy I have.<br /><br />I'm so glad you're away from her and happy now!Helenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00098708210972869491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14994418.post-37434773944118066722009-11-25T11:32:28.214+01:002009-11-25T11:32:28.214+01:00"Don't take it personally" is kind o..."Don't take it personally" is kind of hard when it's said right to your face. That's about as personal as you can get. Still, it's in your past now and you're able to move on.Riverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14794655013673748992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14994418.post-4841317658839298562009-11-25T09:24:12.422+01:002009-11-25T09:24:12.422+01:00Well said LC.
I find it very difficult to hate. T...Well said LC.<br /><br />I find it very difficult to hate. There are some people in this world who are haters, who can make and bear grudges easily. I can't and it sounds it bit like neither of you can either. A grudge well-founded is a different thing, and they thankfully tend to be few and far between.<br /><br />There are always the one or two notable exceptions in the hating stakes, and as you rightly point out, if those people realised what they did and apologised for it, then the hating would be all the harder. There always seem to be one or two people that we cross in our lives who are just plain nasty, horrible or despicable. Handling them is one of the most difficult experiences one can ever endure, and I have only one solution. Get away from them.<br /><br />Which you did - and full marks to you. In the end its not about status, or money (provided you have enough to get by). Its about feeling satisfied (with doing something, generally good - be that work, or family, or volunteering, or SOMETHING). And living with yourself.<br /><br />I sometimes wonder what these horrible people will think, in their declining years - and murphys law says the buggers will live until their 80's. Will they think that perhaps they didn't need to be such shits after all? After all they will die too. Will they ask their maker for forgiveness? Or will they just sail on being complete mongrels until the day they stop wasting somebody elses valuable oxygen? Who knows...<br /><br />I'm comin' over all philosophical-like...ashleighhttp://ashleigh.id.aunoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14994418.post-68477951851301543002009-11-25T04:43:36.705+01:002009-11-25T04:43:36.705+01:00"Don't take it personally."
"Y..."Don't take it personally."<br /><br />"You've got to move on."<br /><br />"See the positive side of things."<br /><br />Usually said by people that do, can't and don't.<br /><br />I'd forgive her: If she showed remorse, asked for it (after full admission of what she did and the consequences) and demonstrated she'd never do anything like it again. But that won't happen.<br /><br />People can offer all the advice they like about a situation I doubt many would have handled any better and which none can understand the full extent to which it effected us. But don't expect me to take them too seriously.<br /><br />Advice is cheap and rarely constitutes real help.lcnoreply@blogger.com